Ibn Rajab Al-Hanbali writes:
وقال الفضيل بن عياض موضحًا الفرق بين الناصح والشامت: المؤمن يستر وينصح والفاجر يهتك ويعير
“When Al-Fudhayl Ibn Iyaadh was asked about the difference between advising and exposing, he said: “A believer covers up and advises [his or her fellow believers], whereas an evildoer exposes and humiliates [others].”
[“Jami’ Al-‘Uloom wal-‘Hikam”, 77].
الإمام الشافعي رحمه الله وهو في ديوانه، قال رحمه الله تعالى
لسانك لا تذكر به عورة امرئ *** فكلّـك عورات وللناس ألسـن
وعينك إن أبدت إليك معايباً *** فدعها وقل : يا عين للناس أعينُ
Imam Shaafi’ee “Let not your tongue mention the shame of another,
For you yourself are covered in shame and all men have tongues.
If your eye falls upon the sins of your brother,
Shield them and say: “O my eye! All men have eyes”
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
لا تحزن أيها الداعي إلى الله إذا لم تقبل دعوتك، فإذا أدّيت ما يجب عليك فقد برئت الذمة والحساب على الله تعالى،كما قال الله تعالى لنبيّه صلى الله عليه وسلم: (لَسْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ بِمُصَيْطِرٍ* إِلاَّ مَنْ تَوَلَّى وَكَفَرَ) [الغاشية:22-23] يعني لكن من تولى وكفر (فَيُعَذِّبُهُ اللَّهُ الْعَذَابَ الْأَكْبَرَ*إِنَّ إِلَيْنَا إِيَابَهُمْ * ثُمَّ إِنَّ عَلَيْنَا حِسَابَهُمْ ) [الغاشية:24-26]
فلا تحزن أيها الداعي إلى الله إذا رد قولك، أو إذا لم يقبل لأول مرة، لأنك أديت ما يجب عليك.
ولكن اعلم أنك إذا قلت حقاً تريد به وجه الله فلابد أن يؤثر، حتى لو رد أمامك فلابد أن يؤثر،وفي قصة موسى عليه السلام عبرة للدعاة إلى الله،وذلك أنه جُمعَ له السحرة من كل وجه في مصر، واجتمعوا، وألقوا حبالهم وعصيّهم حتى كانت الأرض تمشي ثعابين، حتى إن موسى عليه السلام خاف (فَأَوْجَسَ فِي نَفْسِهِ خِيفَةً مُوسَى) (طه:67)
فلما اجتمعوا كلهم قال لهم: (وَيْلَكُمْ لا تَفْتَرُوا عَلَى اللَّهِ كَذِباً فَيُسْحِتَكُمْ بِعَذَابٍ وَقَدْ خَابَ مَنِ افْتَرَى) (طه:61)
كلمات يسيرة، قال الله عزّ وجل: (فَتَنَازَعُوا أَمْرَهُمْ بَيْنَهُمْ وَأَسَرُّوا النَّجْوَى) (طه:62)
يعني أنهم تنازعوا فوراً، والفاء في قوله: (فَتَنَازَعُوا) للسببية والترتيب والتعقيب.
فتأمل كيف أثرت هذه الكلمات من موسى عليه السلام بهؤلاء السحرة، فلابد لكلمة الحق أن تؤثر، لكن قد تؤثر فوراً وقد تتأخر. والله ا لموفق.
من شرح الحديث الثامن (أمرت أن أقاتل الناس )/ الأربعين النووية
شرح الشيخ العثيمين رحمه الله وأسكنه الفردوس الأعلى
Pearls of Wisdom from Umm Abdil Wahhab (Zawjat ash-Sheikh Hassan Al
All praise is for Allah, and may peace and blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah (sallalahu alayhi wasalaam), and upon (the Messenger’s) family and companions.
As salaamu alaykunna,
Inshaa`Allah this email reaches all of you in the best of health and in a high state of eeman. Umm Abdil Wahhab has been married to Sheikh HassanAl-Banna (hafithuallah) for 25 years. She is 67 years old and has 1 son. She is a wonderful woman, very warm, genuine and friendly. I truly miss her and was saddened by their departure. Alhumdulilah, we had an opportunity to speak with her and she shared some (what I call) pearls of wisdom. She told us that the Sheikh does all of the shopping for their house and for her. She was rather puzzled at the fact that women in the states go shopping. She said she has never seen this in Islam. She asked why the men do not go, when she was told the men work, she said in a matter of fact tone – ok since they work during the week, they can go shopping on Saturday and Sunday. When asked what piece of advice would she give to the women in the states, she said first and foremost LEARN ARABIC. She said she was saddened that there were not more sisters in the states that speak Arabic. She said she doesn’t understand why we learn (and teach our children) Quran before we learn to read, write and understand Arabic. She said she thought that was backwards, as how can we truly understand Quran, if we do not understand Arabic. Without the true understanding, it is just memorization and this is not enough. She said our first priority should be learning Arabic, and then teaching our children. She said we should speak Arabic in our homes and to each other as much as possible. She said our children should be making salat at the age of 7 and we should beat them with miswak (for not making it) at 10. On Friday, at the Masjid, after salatul Maghrib, she asked why the sisters do not make the sunnah prayers. She stressed that the sunnah prayers were muakkada (highly stressed) and she asked that this be conveyed to all the sisters. She expressed concern about the women in the states and the number of marriages and divorces. She said she saw so many women crying over the marriages and this made her sad. She talked about how women spoke to her about divorcing and being remarried within a few months. She said she did not understand how and why this happened and that this upset her as well. She said the men are responsible for 3 things (housing, clothing and food – period). She mentioned the murder of Brother Siddiq and she said that women must submit to the deen completely. Polygyny is part of Islam and if the husband wants to exercise this right the women must submit. She talked about sisterhood and ramadan coming, and she said the families should be getting together throughout the month of ramadan and beyond. She said we should be visiting one another, sharing meals, bringing food to each others homes and enjoying each others company. She also talked about the way the women dress (kuffar) in the states. She said it was so bad that she had to cover her eyes. She spoke of several other things as well, mashaa`Allah.
My dear sisters, this last thing I am going to write literally brought tears to all of our eyes when she said it and it is something that we should all reflect on…We asked Umm Abdil-Wahhaab how she felt about her visit to the states (this was upon her arrival and before she had an opportunity to go to the Masjid in Philly) she said “the Salafiyoon in the States is all talk no deen, all talk no religion” – My dear sisters, on that note, I will close.
I pray that I have presented this wonderful woman’s words accurately. I ask Allah subhanu wa ta al`aa to forgive me for anything that I have stated incorrectly. Inshaa`Allah her words will serve as a reminder for us all and may Allah bless her and the Sheikh in this life and in the next. Ameen.
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
الحمد الله ربَّ العالمين، وصلى الله وسلم على نبيه محمد و على آله وسلم تسليمًا كثيرًا مزيدًا.
Advice From Umm Salamah’
To the Sisters Who Give Da’wah in the West
أخرج الدينَوَرِي وابن عَسَاكِر عن مُجَاهِد قال: خطب عثمان بن عفان، فقال في خطبته: ابن آدم اعلم أن ملك الموت الذي وكل بك لم يزل يخلِّفك، ويتخطى إلى غيرك منذ أنت في الدنيا، وكأنه قد تخطى غيرك إليك وقصدك، فخذ حذرك واستعدّ له، ولا تغفل فإنه لا يغفُل عنك. واعلم ابن آدم، إن غفلت عن نفسك ولم تستعد، لم يستعد لها غيرك. ولا بد من لقاء الله، فخذ لنفسك، ولا تكلها إلى غيرك، والسلام
It is narrated that ‘Uthmân b. Áffân – Allâh be pleased with him – said in a sermon:
Son of Adam! Know that the angel of death who has been assigned to you has not ceased to pass you and move on to others, ever since you have been in this world. But it is as if he is about to pass someone else and move on to target you, so be careful and prepare for him (by correcting your deeds). And do not forget him, for he does not forget you.
And know o son of Adam, if you are heedless about yourself and do not prepare, no one else will prepare for you. You must meet Allah the Mighty and Majestic, so take for yourself and do not leave it to someone else. Peace be on you.
Abû Bakr Al-Daynûrî, Al-Mujâlasah wa Jawâhir Al-Ílm 2: 73, 74