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21 Points on Raising Children – Umm ‘Abdillaah al-Waadi’iyyah
From her beneficial book, My Advice to the Women. Translated by brother Aqeel Ingram and distributed by Tarbiyyah Bookstore.
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Umm Abdullah Al Wade’iyyah Speaks of Her Father’s Rearing of His Daughters
Taken from the book: Nubthatun Mukhtesiratun Min Nasaaeh…(Brief summarized excerpt of my father’s, Shiekh Muqbil bin Hadee Al Wade’iee life)
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Wives/Mothers Seeking Ilm Shaykh Falah Isma’eel (hafidhahullah) in Slough 2010
Question: “Some sisters dont get time to seek ilm of Islam after they have kids. So what can their husbands do to aid them in seeking ilm?”
Answer: “You should make it easy for your wife to study, help with the children and housework. Make it easy by way of computer, through internet she can seek ilm. You can read with her 40 ahadith of Imaam Nawawee etc. Its a must that you have lessons for your family inside the home, not just outside. Such as the seerah of the prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam). This will benefit you because she will teach your children. Allah said- Oh you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from a fire whose fuel is men and stones.. And the prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) said- I advice you to be good to your women. The prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) would help in the household. Some husbands (or wives) enter their houses like a lion and command their wives to bring this, bring that! The household wont be cultivated like this, especially if its salafiyyah. FEAR ALLAH in regards to the women.”
Raising Daughters (click this link)
This article has been updated to include the following:
- Being Kind to Daughters – Methods and Examples
- Choosing a Good Mother.
- Choosing a good name.
- Providing for their Physical Needs such Food, Clothing and Medicine.
- Being Generous, kind and Merciful to Them.
- Being Just Between Them and their Siblings whether they are Boys or Girls.
Exert from the artilce:
“The older a daughter becomes, the more she would need to feel respected and appreciated. If you provide this for her, she would feel that she is an important member of her family, in her own parent’s home, and this would help her greatly in stability and steadfastness. If however, she feels belittled and neglected, that she is not addressed except with orders and prohibitions; only asking her to carry out chores and so on, this would only make her hate her home and family, and Shaytaan may start whispering to her. She would then start looking for care and love in impermissible methods, which would lead her to destruction. Only Allaah knows where she would finally settle.”
حسن اختيار الاسم
توفير حاجات البدن من غذاء ولباس ودواء
إكرامهن والعطف عليهن ورحمتهن